Anonymous asked: This may be a nuisance question. In regards to your post about different types of masochism, would you mind giving some further examples of what a MENTAL masochist is like? I have a hunch I may be one rather than a physical one. Thanks,
Another way people say it is ‘mind fuck’.
It’s basically messing with someones head.
Perhaps it teasing them, if they can’t orgasm, detailing a sexy story to them, knowing they can’t cum.
Blindfolding a bound sub, turning the vibrator held between their legs, and telling them you have to pop out to the store and you’ll be back in an hour. However, after walking out and shutting the door, you return, barefoot, to sit quietly and enjoy the show.
Telling a sub to wait for you in their living room, leaving the back door unlocked, wearing only a blindfold, then, when you arrive, act as though you are having a conversation with someone, making them believe you brought company.
A good mind fuck can bring to life a fantasy that perhaps you are not or will never be ready to actually act out.